I know that posting private stuff is fround upon but I just don’t give a crap anymore, my Father is leaving us due to some fucking chick he been texting and honestly I don’t know how much longer I can go. My family and I telled him how we felt and he seemed to not care.
Anyway thanks if you’re reading this. And feel to close this or whatever, I don’t care anymore.
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Hey man things can look bad now but it can always turn around for the better. Just hang in tight and wait for the rough waves to pass.
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This.
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Remember this when he gets old and stick him in the worst nursing home you can find 
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Guess your dad made up his mind. Its difficult, but when he wants to go, what can you possibly do but to let him go?
I couldn’t possibly give advice on another’s parson’s life without directly knowing them, but what I can say is that I would recomend doing something that’s enjoyable, safe, and familiar to you.
You might find it good for yourself to do something like that, a reminder that your life as you know it isn’t over, you have other things that give you meaning and/or happiness.
In other words, think Shaun of the Dead; Go to the pub, have a cold pint, and wait for all this to blow over.
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Sorry to ask but how old are you.
I have seen alot of years on earth, you will make it through. Best advice, stay close to Jesus. Brought me through wars and tough spots with people.
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If you need anything I’m here and so it the enlisted community. Life is f***** and for some reason Bad stuff happens to good people
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Thanks for all the nice words, I honestly thought this wouldn’t have happened to me and my family, and it nice to see that some people care, thanks guys and gals. I appreciate it.
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I rather not say honestly, no offense.
Do you want to hear the hard truth. It might be hard to hear and if your not ready that’s ok
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Sure
Hard truth is the next couple of weeks are going to be really hard you’re going to feel less motivated and you’ll find it hard to get out of bed. But one of the best way to get over this is by talking to a sibling if you have one because they are going through the same thing as you. Another thing you can do is talk to your friends they we help you thought this time and remember say strong.
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Sad to hear but people do get divorced, you are not alone in this. Not many people do live happily married for 40 years. At a certain age you will understand why this happens , that y also could be the one doing it etc. A person in love is not always rational and hope that the relationship between y and your father will continue… Life is full of ups and downs, can’t be steered. Hang in there cos it takes time , You will survive ,learn and adapt.
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These things happen, we are only human afterall and we have needs, like your father does. Everyone has the right to be happy, its where you find your heaven. Life is short. Hope you all find peace xx
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You should always remember that your life will always go on regardless of what has happend to you or someone close to you.
At first it might sound like an odd piece of advise it but you will always have to find a way deal with the new situation. You might need to adapt your lifestyle or find other ways to cope with the disruption but you should never neglect your own personnal life ( and obligations) just because you are too busy grieving the loss.
Find ways to distract yourself preferably in a non harmfull way (heavy drinking, drug or self harm) and you will be able to grow as person by overcoming he hardship.
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Life sucks lots of the time - but it is still the best thing you will ever have
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That’s awful man I’m sorry to hear. Just do your best to stick through it and spend time with your family. You’ve all already done the most you can, it’s up to your father to grow and be a better person. Nothing he does of his volition is reflective upon yourself or any of your loved ones.
Keep your head up and keep on keeping on however you can, every emotion you feel is valid and know that you’re never alone and you’ve always got family no matter what.
Wishing the best. 
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